Once again, I am sorry for my unplanned hiatus, I feel as if I should say I have been busy, or give a legitimate excuse, but truth is, this is the one place I can be really honest, with you and with myself. I have been in a dark, dark place. I knew I would never react positively to school being removed, but I didn’t think I would react this badly. But, I cannot simply blame this on someone or something else. I had wonderful advice from all of you, support from my family and treatment team, but I simply felt unable to make myself a plan, and then implement it.
Yesterday, my final ever day of school arrived, and threw so many emotions in my face. Instantly, this was translated to feeling ‘fat’. After much crying, I did manage to drag myself to school, and I didn’t have an amazing time, but this was something I needed to do.
My leavers party bag
By the time the evening rolled around, I wanted nothing more than to resign to my bed, allowing myself to be consumed by negative thoughts. Luckily, I have some amazing friends, who dragged me out clubbing.
Lost my revs 'virginity'
I’ve only been out a few times, and never before have I stayed out until 3.15! I loved dancing for hours and hours, because nothing else mattered whilst I was dancing. I also sang along with these lyrics, and they really stuck with me.
“I’m tired of being what you want me to be
Feeling so faithless, lost under the surface
Don’t know what you’re expecting of me
Put under the pressure of walking in your shoes
(Caught in the undertow, just caught in the undertow)
Every step that I take is another mistake to you
(Caught in the undertow, just caught in the undertow)
I’ve become so numb, I can’t feel you there
Become so tired, so much more aware
I’m becoming this, all I want to do
Is be more like me and be less like you”
One of the things I do struggle with, is simply thinking I am okay, just because I have been out one time, and managed to simply dance my worries away. Because, when I stop dancing, I have to come home again, have to face up to the enormity of my current task. Have tp admit that I am living under a dark cloud. Because it is lonely under my cloud, realistically no one else knows how dark I really feel.
Some days I do not feel strong, most days I feel unable to fight. You all fill me with hope that it will get easier. So thank you all so much.